Every time there is a national crisis of some sort people turn out in droves loudly proclaiming their love and concern for the population effected by the tragedy. Hurricane Harvey is just the latest. Hurricane Sandy, the Sandy Hook massacre, the Oklahoma City bombing, 9/11. The list goes on and on, and in each instance people donate money, they send relief supplies, they cry what they profess to be real tears for people who are hurting and in desperate need of help. I CALL BS
Today is the first news cycle that was not lead by videos of Hurricane Harvey. What was the first video? The president of the united states claiming “we love the dreamers, we love everybody” all while making the decision to end protections for young people protected under the Deferred Action for Childhood Arrival – DACA – act.
Let me get this straight. You love them but you want them to go “back” to countries they do not remember, where they have no family, they do not speak the language, and have no means to support themselves. That doesn’t sound like any love I’ve ever experienced and it’s certainly not coming from a place of compassion or concern. How many DACA kids do you suppose are helping rescue hurricane victims? How many DACA kids do you suppose are up to their necks in debris and devastation left from the storm, but they’re at their neighbor’s houses helping with the clean up? These kids are allowed to work and required to pay taxes, but they get nothing in return. They don’t qualify for any social services, they don’t get “hand outs” from the American people. They give far more to this country than what we give them in return.
Thanks for helping. We love you, now go away.
How about that ban on transgender people serving in the military? The administration and a lot of flag-waving Americans claim to be “friends of the gays” using the phrase “the gays” as a catch-all for the entire LGBTQ+ community, but transgender people are clearly too much of a drain on military so they must go.
What a load of crap. I won’t even attempt to lay out the real cost of being transgender on the military, or compare it to the waste, fraud, and abuse that is rampant in this administration. Others have done that already. It doesn’t seem to matter to those making the decisions that the cost of caring for transgender servicemembers is astonishingly miniscule in the grand scheme of budgetary expenses. This ban is borne of pure hate. There is no way to spin it to make it sound remotely responsible or compassionate.
My transgender wife honorably served in the United States Air Force for 20 years. She did not have the option to live authentically at that time. It’s speculation, but I believe those 20 years would have been so much easier for her had she been allowed to serve openly. Haven’t we learned this lesson by allowing people to serve regardless of their sexual orientation? Here is something to consider, United States of America……….there will soon be NO eligible young people willing to serve in the military. If we don’t wake up and accept that our young people have the expectation of being accepted for who they are, our military ranks will continue to dwindle to dangerously low levels of operational readiness. Good luck dealing with the crazy loon in North Korea!
Let’s talk about what it means when our police take the oath to “protect and serve.” What does that look like for the citizens who rely on law enforcement? It looks very different for me as a 50 year old white woman than it does for a 25 year old black man. White men taking oaths to protect and serve making jokes about “only killing black people” when making a traffic stop. Jokes like that are never innocent and certainly not funny. That statement tells a lot about the person’s true character and judgement.
Are we a country that truly believes in civil rights? Well of course we are, right? We settled that a long time ago when we let Black people drink out of our water fountains and sit next to us on the bus. We white people have done our part. It’s all good.
Nope. Not even close to being a country that actually CARES ABOUT ALL PEOPLE. People who enjoy their civil rights are still actively trying to steal them from others. My civil rights are far more important than your civil rights. If you get more rights, mine will be diminished. You will steal mine so I’ll make sure you just don’t have any in the first place.
BS BS BS!!! Civil rights don’t run out like milk and bread the day before a snowstorm.
I could go on forever, but I have to end soon or you will stop reading. One final thought, knowing this last paragraph is directed mostly at people outside my community of truly compassionate friends, so share widely if you would……
Keep your teddy bears, keep your canned goods and diapers, keep your cash and blankets and clothes you’ve dug out of your closet. Don’t fly the flag in your yard. Don’t bother placing your hand over your heart during the National Anthem or singing the hymns in church on Sunday. Don’t bother “giving until it hurts” unless you have searched your heart and find compassion for ALL human beings, love them for who they are rather than who you want them to be, are more concerned about their well-being than what you can get from them. Keep all your gifts given out of some false sense of patriotism and compassion because it’s been proven time and time again that none of that compassion, concern, and love for your fellow man lasts for long. It’s temporary to make yourself feel better. It flies out the window the next time somebody refuses to serve a gay couple because of deeply held beliefs, or an unarmed black man is shot for walking down the sidewalk at the wrong time of day, or a statue of slave owner is moved out of a place of reverence.
I hope some day I can stop calling BS.